
No. A common misconception in child custody cases is the idea that the court will favor the mother over the father. North Carolina Law states that no presumption between mother and father will apply to which parent will better promote the interest and welfare of the child.

In Mecklenburg County, the parties involved in custody and visitation lawsuits, including contempt motions and motions to modify existing custody orders, are required to attend a parenting education course, which focuses on how children are affected by divorce and family transitions, and how parents can minimize the impact these changes have on children.
Modifying a Child Custody Order or Agreement
If the terms of custody are in a court order, a parent may always request a modification of that order. As children grow, their needs change, as do their preferences for activities. In order to modify a custody order, or an agreement related to custody that has been incorporated into a court order, the party requesting a modification must show that a substantial and material change of circumstances has occurred since entry of the current order in effect, and that it is in the best interest of the child to change that order. If the custody terms are in an agreement which has not been incorporated into a court order, the parties will need to amend their agreement or file a new custody action for the purposes of entering a consent order which sets out their custody terms.